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By midlife, we’ve lived a lot of life. We’ve carried responsibilities – people, deadlines, logistics, emotions, outcomes. We’ve been busy, useful, stretched, exhausted. Good. Tired....
Finding My North Star (Again)
It’s the start of May, and I’m finally feeling more like myself again. I’ve got more energy. I feel clearer. Lighter. Like I’m emerging from a fog. But earlier this year, it was a very different...
When Confidence Dips (Even When You Thought You Had It Sorted)
Confidence is a funny thing. It’s not something you either have or don’t – it moves. It shifts. And sometimes, without warning, it dips. This is the story of how a ski trip reminded me of that — and...
The Power of Showing Up in Midlife on International Women’s Day
Today, I joined The Big Swim – an event where 500 women gathered at Sandbanks Beach, Poole, for International Women’s Day. Together, we plunged into the cold sea to celebrate how far women have come...
Midlife, Uncertainty, and the Magic of Taking the Next Step
Are you ready for some midlife magic? I’m writing this from my childhood bedroom, home for a few days to see my parents. They’re in their mid-80s now—still active, still living a good life—but their...
Choosing Yourself: The Ultimate Love Story
When was the last time you truly chose yourself? Valentine’s Day is often wrapped in grand gestures and romantic expectations, but what if we used it as a quiet moment to reflect? Not just on love...
How I Started 2025 With a Love Note to Myself (And Why You Might Want To Try It Too)
How have you started 2025? With excitement, hesitation, or somewhere in between? Just before Christmas, I did something I’ve never done at this time of year: I wrote myself a love note. I usually...
Make 2025 Your Best Year Yet
What if your phone held the roadmap to your most intentional year yet? The media loves a good “New Year, New You” headline—like January is a magic button that hands us a clean slate. But by midlife,...
Today is my birthday… and I’m doing exactly what I want.
Birthdays. Christmas. New Year’s. They often come wrapped in layers of expectation — long-held traditions, pressure to please others, or simply doing what’s always been done. Without meaning to, we...
Letting Go: Creating Space for What’s Next
Are you finding It hard to let go? Last week, a friend invited me to her home for a Samhain ceremony – a tradition I hadn’t encountered before and wasn’t quite sure what to expect. I learned...
Struggling to Stick to Habits? Your Personality Might Be the Missing Link
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to stick to habits so easily – while you find yourself unravelling just days (or even hours) after making a plan? Then welcome to the club. For years, I...
Life’s Nudges: Discovering What Really Matters to You
Life has a way of nudging us to pause and reflect on what’s really important. I received one of those nudges this week when I was diagnosed with genetic haemochromatosis (GH), a hereditary condition...